Abasore benshi bakubwira ko bashaka abakobwa babakunda gusa umukobwa ntazagukunda mu gihe utamuhaye ibi bikurikira:
Muhe amafaranga; ntibikiri inkuru ko abakobwa bakunda amafaranga cyane.
Muhe urukundo; akeneye urukundo cyane kuko ari rwo rwaguhuje nawe
Muhe umwanya; Aragukeneye cyane kandi ashaka ko umugira uw'ingenzi
