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Ubuyo bwiza bwo gufasha umuntu ushaka kwiyahura.

By Ubwanditsi

Muri iyi minsi, kwiyahura ni ikibazo gihangayikishije isi. Umuntu ufata icyemezo cyo kwiyahura aba ageze ku rwego atekereza ko ubuzima bwe budashobora gutera imbere, agahitamo guhagarika umubababaro we no kwikura mu bibazo by'inzitane akoresheje kwiyambura ubuzima nyamara hari icyakorw uyu muntu akaba yasubira mu buzima busanzwe.

Mbere ya byose, kwiyahura ni icyaha, mbere y'uko umuntu afata umwanzuro wo kwiyahura, aba agomba kubanza gutekereza kuri aya magambo “mwumvise ko abakera babwiwe ngo ntukice,uwica akwiriye guhanwa n'abacamanza” (Yohana 5:21) abantu baremwe n'Imana , nta n'umwe muri twe ufite uburenganzira bwo kubica cyangwa kwiyica ubwe. Kwiyahura ni ukubwira Imana ko mu gihe yaremaga abantu itari izi icyo ikora kandi ko itari izi ko umuntu azaca mu bikomeye. Ikindi, iminsi yo kubaho kwacu Imana yayanditse mu gitabo cyayo itarabaho n'umwe (Yobu: 139:16)

Mu gihe incuti yacu cyangwa incuti y'umuryango tubona ko yatekereje kwiyahura, dukwiye kumugira inama yo kujya kureba muganga ufasha abafite ibibazo by'imitekerereze .incuro nyinshi,agahinda gakomeye, cyangwa ibibazo byo ku mubiri bishobora kuba intandaro yo gutekereza kwiyahura. Muganga ashobora kumuha imiti ituma imigambi yo kwiyahura imushiramo hanyuma agasubirana ibitekerezo bizima. Incuti ze za bugufi cyangwa abo mu muryango we, bagomba kumuba hafi kugira ngo bamenye uko impinduka imiti igenda imusigira kugeza ubwo azongera gusubira mu buzima busanzwe.

Iyo amaze gukira ibitekerezo bye bisubiye ku murongo, uyu muntu washakaga kwiyahura,dushobora kumufasha mu buryo bw'umwuka. Niba uyu muntu ataramenya Yesu ngo akizwe, uku kwiheba kwe gushobora kuba kwaraterwaga no kubura icyizere cyangwa intego. Mu gihe amenye ko ubuzima bwe bufite icyo busobanuye kandi ko ahazaza he hari mu biganza by'Imana, igitekerezo cyo kurangiza ubuzima bwe gihita kirangirira aho. Ikindi ni ukumusomera ibyanditswe byera bisobanura ububi bwo kwiyahura kugeza igihe nawe afashe icyemezo cyo gukizwa akakira Yesu nk'umwami n'umukiza w'ubugingo bwe.

Rimwe na rimwe umuntu ushaka kwiyahura ashobora kuba ari umukristo akaba yatakaje ibyiringiro by'ubuzima. Uyu muntu nawe akeneye guhabawa imiti ndetse n'inama za muganga kandi akeneye gukorerwa igenzurwa n'abantu be ba bugufi bakamuhora hafi.n'ubwo tuzi ko kwiyahura ari icyaha, sicyo gihe cyo gutangira kumucira urubanza no kumushinja kuko nta n'umwe uba uzi ikigero cy'umubabaron'agahinda bya mugenzi we: “umutima wiyiziho uwawo mubabaro, kandi umunezero wawo nta mushyitsi wawujyamo” (Imigani 14:10)

Byongeye, dushobora kumufasha dukoresheje kumuha igihe gihagije cyo kumuba hafi, tukamwereka ko atari we wa mbere ugize icyo gitekerezo kitari cyiza, ahubwo tukamuha ingero z'abantu biyahuye n'ingaruka mbi byabagizeho nko kuba barabuze ijuru, kuba barasize umuryango wabo mu kaga n'ibindi.kandi tukamwibutsa ko ibihe bisimburanwa ko atazahora ababaye, ibyiza biri imbere nta mpamvu yo kwigirira nabi.

tugomba kwiyumvisha ko n'ubwo umuntu yatekereje kwiyahura, sit we twabiteye. Akenshi, imiryango n'incuti z'umuntu wiyahuye, bakunda kwishinja ko ari bo batumye umuntu yiyahura, nyamara si byo ahubwo ni ukwiyongerera umubabaro ndetse iyi ni intwaro ya satani yo kwiba umunezero w'abantu. Incuti z'umuntu zishobora kugerageza kumukorera byose zishoboye ngo zimufashe, ariko umwanzuro wa nyuma si uwabo. Niba umuntu yatekereje kurangiza ubuzima bwe, nta kintu na kimwe undi yabikoraho ngo amubuze kuko biba biri mu mutima we kandi ntibyoroshye kumenya ibiri mu mutima w'undi, kertse gusa bimucitse ukumva abivuze nibwo watangira kumwigisha.

Ni inshingano ya buri wese gukora ibishoboka byose byatuma akiza ubuzima bwa benshi kuko abantu ni umutungo w'Imana kandi n'igihugu kugirango gitere imbere ni uko kiba gifite abaturage bagikorera.

Ubuhamya bw'umukobwa witwa Tara watotejwe n'umuyango bamuhora ko yakijijwe.

By Ubwanditsi

Tara ni umukobwa ufite imyaka 14 y'amavuko, yavukiye mu gihugu cy'ubuhinde (India). Akimara kwakiraYesu Kristo nk'umwami n'umukiza w'ubugingo bwe, yahuye n'intambara zo kwangwa n'incuti ndetse n'umuryango we. Bamuhoraga ko avuye mu idini yitwa Hindu akajya mu idini ya gikristo

Kuba umukristo bifatwa nk'aho ari igisebo mu buhinde, byongeye kandi kwitwa umuhinde bisobanuye kuba umuyoboke w'iri dini (hindu). Abakristo bake baba muri iki gihugu bahabwa akato bakajya kuba ahantu ha bonyine.

Inkuru y'ubuzima bwa Tara irababaje kuko yahuye n'akarengane gakabije azira ko yakijijwe, aradusobanuririra ibyamubayeho agira ati:

“Nabanaga n'umuryango wanjye mu nzu ifite ibyumba 15 muri make wari umuryango wishyize hamwe. Kuko nahisemo kwizera Yesu Kristo, bampaye icyumba gito cyane kitari hafi y'ibindi. Nta muntu n'umwe wo mu muryango winjiraga mu cyumba cyanjye, nta n'umwe washoboraga kunkoraho cyangwa kundeba, natekaga ukwanjye, ntawemeraga kurya ibiryo natetse habe no kunywa amazi nakozeho.”

Umuryango wa Tara wanze kumwishyurira amafaranga y'ishuri bakamubwira ngo yarabasebeje, ariko we ubwe yakoze uko ashoboye kugirango akomeze kwiga aratubwira uko yabyitwayemo agira ati: “nta n'umwe mu muryango wamfashaga kwishura amafaranga y'ishuri, mu kiruhuko najyaga guhingira amafaranga ngakora ntaruhuka kugira ngo mbone amafaranga yo kugura ibyo kurya ndetse no kwishyura ishuri”

Muri ibyo bigeragezo byose uyu mukobwa yanyuzemo umuryango we washakaga ko yareka kuba umukristo kuko babifataga nk'ubuyobe nyamara yarabahakaniye aravuga ati: “nzi ko Yesu ariwe Mana y'ukuri, sinzamusimbuza ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, nta kintu nagereranya n'amahoro nabonye muri Yesu”

Abantu bagize amahirwe yo kuvukira cyangwa gutura mu bihugu bitanga umudendezo ku bakristo, dukwiye gusengera abandi batarabona ayo mahirwe nabo Imana ibahe uburyo bwagutse bwo kuyikorera babohotse. nitubikora dutyo, tuzaba dutanze umusanzu wacu mu guteza imbere umurimo w'Imana.

Uburyo bwiza bwo gukemura amakimbirane hagati y'umubyeyi n'abana.

By Ubwanditsi

Umubano mwiza mu muryango ni ubutunzi budakunze kuboneka. Bisaba umwanya n'imbaraga nyinshi, urukundo no kubabarira, ubuhanga no kwihangana kugirango wubake umubano mwiza mu bana bawe.

Rimwe na rimwe mu muryango haboneka ibibazo bigakomeretsa umubano bigatuma hatabaho kwizerana. Iyo bene izi nzitizi zije kwangiza umubano, mugomba kwibuka kuzishakira umuti. Birakwiriye gukora uko ushoboye kugirango ugarure icyizere n'urukundo mu rugo rwawe.

Ni iki wakora mugihe abana bagutakarije icyizere?

Hari igihe gishobora kugera abana bawe bakagutakariza icyizere. Wenda wishe amasezerano wagiranye nabo cyangwa se wababaniye nabi. Iyo watsinzwe ntubashe kugirirwa icyizere. Fata iya mbere mu kubikemura no gusaba imbabazi. Fata igihe cyo kubaka umubano mwiza mu bana bawe. Babaze niba hari ibyo wabasezeranyije ukaba utarabikoze hanyuma ukore icyo ugomba gukora kugira ngo wuzuze amasezerano yanyu.

Ni iki wakora mu gihe abana batakubaha?

Ibyanditswe byera bitwigisha ko guca bugufi bibanziriza icyubahiro. Abana bagomba kubaha ababyeyi. Ariko se nk'umubyeyi, wigisha abana bawe kubaha? Banza urebe imyitwarire yawe niba ari urugero rwiza ku bana bawe. Fasha abana bawe kumva icyo Bibiliya ivuga ku bijyanye no kubaha

Wakora iki mu gihe batakaje umushyikirano?

Niba abana bawe bagaragaza ko badashaka kuganira nawe, gerageza umenye mu by'ukuri ikibibatera. Unarebe ikintu mwakorera hamwe n'abana kigatuma banezerwa,ushingiye ku byo uzi bakunda mu buzima bwabo.

Ni ngombwa ko nk'umubyeyi utera intambwe yo kunoza umubano hagati yawe n'abana. Nubagaragariza imyitwarire myiza bazagufatira ho urugero nabo bige gukora neza, ni byiza rero kubakorera ibintu bibanezeza. Bahe ubushobozi bwo kuvumbura ibintu by'ingirakamaro bibazanira umunezero, kandi ufate umwanya wo kwishimana nabo mu byo uzi bakunda gukora, jya ukunda kubabaza ibibazo kandi ubatege amatwi wumve ibitekerezo byabo n'ibyifuzo byabo ibyo ubona ari ngombwa ubishakire ibisubizo.
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Ni gute nahagarika gutinya urupfu?

By Ubwanditsi

Umuntu wese iyo ava akagera atinya urupfu, yaba afite abamurinda yaba umukristo haba igihe yumva afite ubwoba bwo gupfa. Ntacyakorwa kugira ngo urupfu ruveho. Ariko kandi urupfu siwo mugabane Imana yatugeneye iturema. Twaremewe gukiranuka no kubana n'Imana muri paradizo. Urupfu ni ingaruka y'icyaha mu isi. Gupfa ni amahirwe, tudapfuye, twabaho mu buzima bw'icyaha iteka ryose.

Muri iyi si yuzuyemo ibibazo, iyo umuntu atekereje ko urupfu rumutegereje, atangira kwibaza uburyo azapfamo inshuro nyinshi ashobora guta umutwe. Icyakora dufite ibyiringiro ko uri muri twe afite imbaraga kuruta uri mu isi (1yohana 4:14) kandi ko yaduteguriye aho tuzabana (Yohana 14:2)

Urupfu ni ikintu gihangayikishije abatuye isi, abantu benshi bahorana ubwoba bibaza ngo ese tuzapfa mu buhe buryo? Ese nituva mu mubiri ni iki kizakurikiraho? Kubw'amahirwe ibi byose bihangayikishije abantu Imana ibifitiye igisubizo.
Mu by'ukuri, nta muntu n'umwe wabona ubusobanuro ku bijyanye n'urupfu, nyamara Bibiliya ivuga yeruye uko bigenda.

Iyo tuvuye mu mubiri, tujya kubana n'umucunguzi Yesu Kristo mu rwandiko rwa kabiri Pawulo yandikiye Abakorinto 5:6-8 aragira ati: “nicyo gituma dukomera umutima iteka, kandi tukamenya yuko iyo turi iwacu mu mubiri, tuba dutuye kure y'umwami wacu (kuko tuba tugenda tuyoborwa no kwizera, tutayoborwa n'ibyo tureba) nyamara dukomera umutima kandi icyoturushaho gukunda ni ukwitandukanya n'uyu mubiri, kugirango twibanire n'umwami wacu, nicyo gituma tugira umwete wo kumunezeza twaba turi mu mubiri cyangwa tudahari”

Urupfu rufatwa nk'ikintu cyavuye ku Mana gishinzwe gutandukanya abantu. Nyamara koko iyo umuntu apfuye aba atandukanye n'incuti ze hano ku isi, ku bakristo, tuzi ko uko gutandukana n'incuti cyangwa imiryango ni iby'akanya gato ugereranyije n'igihe tuzamarana nabo mu ijuru. Ku badakijijwe bo siko babibona kuko baba bafite ubwoba ko ubuzima bwabo burangiriye aho, birakwiye rero ko tubegera tukabamenyesha inzira y'agakiza bakarekeraho gutinya urupfu.

Kuba tuzapfa si ikintu cyakagombye kudutera ubwoba ahubwo icy'ingenzi ni ukwibaza ngo tuzapfa dukijijwe? Kuko mu isi siho tuzahora, iwacu ni mu ijuru niho dutegereje umukiza ko azava ariwe mwami Yesu Kristo uzahindura uyu mubiri wo gucishwa bugufi kwacu akawushushanya n'umubiri w'ubwiza bwe kuko afite imbaraga zo kumubashisha kwigandurira byose (Abafilipi 3:20-21)

Mugihe tumaze gusobanukirwa iby'ubwo bwami, tugomba kubuharanira kandi tukubahiriza ibyo budusaba. Nimurebe urukundo ruhebuje data yadukunze, rwatumye twitwa abana b'Imana kandi niko turi. Nicyo gituma ab'isi batatumenye kuko batayimenye (1Yohana:3-1)

Bakundwa turi abana b'Imana, uko tuzasa ntikurerekanwa.tuzi ko niyerekanwa tuzasa nawe kuko tuzamubona uko ari. ibi biduhamiriza ko tutari ab'isi, ko ijuru ridutegereje ariho tuzabona umugabane wacu nk'abana b'Imana, bityo dukumbure umunsi tuzasa na Kristo ubwo tuzamubona uko ari, urupfu ntiruzongera kubaho ukundi.

Sobanukirwa itandukaniro riri hagati y'ubwenge n'ubumenyi.

By Ubwanditsi

Ubwenge n'ubumenyi,bifitanye isano ariko aya magambo yombi ntahuje inyito. Inkoranya isobanura ubwenge (wisdom) ko ari ubushobozi bwo gushishoza ukamenya icyiza cyangwa ukuri. Ku rundi ruhande, ubumenyi (knowledge) ni amakuru umuntu yunguka ayakuye ku byo akora, atekereza , ku nshuti ze cyangwa mu kiganiro.

Ubumenyi bushobora kubaho nta bwenge buhari, umuntu ashobora kugira ubumenyi ariko atari umunyabwenge. Urugero: ubumenyi ni ukumenya uko bakoresha imbunda, naho ubwenge ni ukumenya igihe cyo kuyikoresha n'ingaruka byatera.
Imana ishaka ko tuyimenya ndetse tukamenya n'icyo idushakaho. Kugirango tuyubahe, tugomba kugira ubumenyi ku mategeko yayo. Ariko byose ni ingenzi kugira ubwenge n'ubumenyi. Ubwenge ni impano iva ku Mana. Ariko niba hariho umuntu muri mwe ubuze ubwenge abusabe Imana iha abantu bose itimana , itishama kandi azabuhabwa (yakobo 1:5). Imana iduha ubwenge kugira ngo tuyiramye tutibagiwe no gukoresha ubumenyi dufite.

Igitabo cy'Imigani kidufasha kwiga ubwenge bwa Bibiriya. Kubaha uwiteka ni ishingiro ryo kumenya, ariko umupfapfa ahinyura ubwenge n'ibibwirizwa (Imigani) kubaha Imana ni ugutangira inzira yo kumenya, kandi Imana iduha ubwenge binyuze muri Kristo Yesu uwo Bibiliya ivuga ko we ubwe ari ubwenge.

Ku bijyanye n'ibyanditswe byera, ubumenyi twabugereranya no gufata umwanya uhagije ugasoma Bibiliya ukavomamo amakuru atandukanye. Mu gihe umaze gusoma ugafata undi mwanya wo gushyira mu nyurabwenge ugafata umwanzuro uhamye wo kwitondera no gukurikiza ibyo ijambo ry'Imana rigutegeka ubu ni bwo bwenge.

Muri make ubumenyi n'ubwenge biruzuzanya, abantu bakora uko bashoboye kugira ngo babone ubumenyi, bishyura amashuri, bakoresha murandasi (internet) kugirango bunguke ubumenyi kandi bikagerwaho nk'uko babyifuza. Nyamara tubonye ko ubwenge buva ku mana niyo mpamvu dukwiriye guhirimbanira kubusaba, nk'uko hari ingero z'abantu babusabye bakabuhabwa kandi bwabagiriye umumaro mu buzima bwabo. Muri abo harimo umwami Salomo umuhungu wa Dawidi.

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Uburemere bw'ibikomere by'imiryango yatinze kubona urubyaro

By Ubwanditsi

Iyo umuhungu n'umukobwa babanye ikintu baba bafitiye amatsiko kuruta ibindi ni ukubyara. Bamwe babana baramaze kuganira ku mubare w'abana bifuza ndetse abihuta cyane baba baramaze no kubita amazina. Imyumvire baba bafite ni uko umuhungu n'umukobwa iyo baryamanye bahita basama.

Ubushakashatsi bw'inzobere mu by'imyororokere buvuga ko ku ngo 10 zishingwa, abashakanye bakiri bato, biteguye kubyara, abagira amahirwe yo guhita basama burya ngo ntibarenga 3%. Abandi bifata igihe kirekire bigasaba gutegereza, maze bamwe nyuma bigakunda abandi bikanga.

Ku bemera Imana, ibi birushaho gushimangira ko umwana ari impano y'Imana koko. Nta mafaranga watanga ngo ubone umwana, nta cyubahiro wagira ngo bitume ubyara, umuryango uvukamo nta cyo wagufasha Imana itaguhaye uwo Mugisha.
Dore abana ni umwandu uturuka ku Uwiteka, Imbuto z'inda ni zo ngororano atanga. (Zaburi 127:3)

Iyo abageni bari gusezerana imbere y'Imana baravuga ngo: “…tuzakomeza kubana mu rukundo, tubyaye cyangwa tutabyaye!” Ibi ntibipfa kumvikana uriya munsi w'ubukwe ariko iyo mutegereje umwana umwaka umwe, imyaka ikicuma ikaba icumi, mutangira kubitekerezaho, icyo gihe ni bwo mumenya ko mwarahiriye ibintu bikomeye. Iki gihita cyerekana ko umwana atari ikintu wakwiha.

Ibikomere bitangira ryari?

Gukomereka ubundi ni igihe uhuye n'ikintu gikomeye amarangamutima yawe akananirwa kucyakira. Icyo gihe byitwa ko wakomeretse. Mu by'ukuri kutabona urubyaro si bose bapfa kubyakira ngo bavuge ko nta cyo bitwaye, keretse intwari mu kwihangana.

Kwitana ba mwana (gukomeretsanya hagati yanyu)

Muri iki kibazo umugabo n'umugore batangira gukekana, umwe atekereza ko mugenzi we ari we nyirabayazana. Mu mico myinshi y'Abanyafurika bwo bikunda kwitirirwa umugore ko ari we utabyara. Gusa kuko ubu ubuvuzi bwateye imbere, abaganga babasha kukubwira uko ikibazo kimeze. Gusa n'ubwo bimeze bitya, umubare w'abagabo bemera kwisuzumisha uracyari hasi.

Gucana inyuma

Bamwe mu bubatse iyo batinze kubona urubyaro bishora mu ngeso z'ubusambanyi kugira ngo bagerageze n'ahandi. Ibi uretse gusiga igisebo n'umutima ugucira urubanza, nta wundi musaruro bikunze gutanga.

Kujya mu bapfumu

Abagore bamwe na bamwe badasenga bajya mu bapfumu, abasenga bakishora mu bahanuzi. Buri wese aba yifuza kumenya impamvu yatumye batinda kubyara ndetse n'intsinzi ya byo. Abenshi bababwira ko barozwe, kugira ngo babacucure utwabo, bababeshya ngo barabavura. Ibi kandi biteranya imiryango ku buryo haba inzangano zitari ngombwa.

Kwiheba

Muri iki kibazo cyo gutinda kubyara habamo ubwihebe bukabije, kwiyanga kugeza ubwo umuntu yumva Imana yaramutaye, agatakaza ibyiringiro. Abagore bacika intege vuba ariko na none iyo bafashijwe, bakira vuba kuko byibuze kuvuga bo biraborohera bakarira bakaruhuka imitima.

Ku bagabo ho si ko bimeze ahubwo yumva mu isi nta wundi mugabo ufite ibibazo nk'ibye cyane cyane iyo yamenye ko ari we ufite ikibazo cyo kutabyara. Abagabo badasenga biyahuza inzoga, abandi bakiyanga ku kigero ahunga abantu akaba mu bwigunge. N'iyo haba umuti wamuvura akanga kuwufata kubera ubwihebe.
“Umutima unezerewe ukesha mu maso, ariko umutima ubabaye utera ubwihebe” (Imigani 15:13).

Kunanirwa gukora,

Hari bamwe bageza ubwo bananirwa gukora kuko aba avuga ngo ese ubundi ndaruhira nde? Ahubwo ugasanga aracungana n'ubuzima bw'umunsi umwe. Abandi bahorana umushiha, uburakari budafite impamvu n'ibindi.

Urukundo rurayoyoka

Burya urukundo rumeze nk'indabyo. Bisaba guhora wuhira. Rero iyo umuryango urimo ibibazo, urukundo rurahazaharira kugeza ubwo bamwe bananirwa gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina kuko bumva ibyo bakoze ari nta musaruro bitanga.

Indwara zidasobanutse

Murabizi ko umubabaro utavuwe uhinduka indwara, abantu benshi bagendana agahinda gakabije (depression), abandi kuko baba batabasha kurya, umubiri ugacika intege. Bamwe barwara umutwe udakira n'igifu, abandi ntibasinzira. Bamwe barware indwara zijyanye n'umubyibuho, abandi imitsi yo mu mutwe iraturika kubera umubabaro w'indengakamere, abandi bariyahura.
“Umutima unezerewe ni umuti mwiza, ariko umutima ubabaye umutera konda” (Imigani 17:22)

Ibikomere by'iwabo w'umugabo n'umugore

Iyo abubatse bagerageje kubana neza muri iki kibazo hari ubwo iwabo w'umwe muri bo bataborohera. Kera iyo mwatindaga kubyara, umugore yarabiziraga bakavuga ko yaje guca umuryango. Muri iki gihe iyo myumvire ntirahinduka bishimishije, gusa ntibibuza kugira ipfunwe mu miryango yanyu.

Ibikomere biva muri sosiyete

Mu bihugu byinshi by'Afurika ntibabasha kwakira umuryango utarabona abana. Uzumva bamwe bavuga ngo uriya mugabo afite akazi keza, ni umukire, yarize cyane ariko ntabyara. Hari bamwe no muri karitsiye ujya kuyoboza ahantu ukumva barakubwiye ngo “hahandi batabyara!” Ibi kandi ntibibura kugera ku bo bivugwaho, ugasanga birushijeho gushengura imitima yabo.

Birababaza iyo uhuye n'umuntu akakuramutsa agahita akubaza ngo mumaze kugira abana bangahe? Iki kibazo gihita kikwibutsa ko utarabyara! Abenshi ntibabyihanganira ahubwo birabakomeretsa.

Aha ntitwabura kuvuga ko hari iminsi mikuru imwe n'imwe nko guhemba ababyaye n'indi iyi miryango batinya kujyamo kuko bavuga ngo nitujya guhemba ababyaye bakabona nteruye umwana w'abandi, nyuma akagira icyo aba, baravuga ngo ni njye umwishe!

Ariko ubundi, ni iki gitera abantu kutabyara?

Hari impamvu nyinshi zishobora gutuma umuntu atabyara:
Imiremerwe:

Uko umuntu aremye hari igihe avukana ingingo zimwe zifite ikibazo bikaba byamubuza amahirwe amwe n'amwe harimo no kubyara. Ibi rimwe na rimwe no kwa muganga nta cyo babikoraho gusa ni byiza kwivuza kugira ngo umenye uko uhagaze.

Uburwayi

Hari ubwo muba muri bazima ariko umwe cyangwa mwembi mukagira uburwayi butuma mutabasha gusama. Icyo gihe iyo mwivuje neza, cyane cyane muri iki gihe ubuvuzi bugenda butera imbere, barabafasha mukabyara. Mu Rwanda bisigaye byoroshye kubera politike nziza y'ubuvuzi kuri bose. Abenshi nta n'ubwo bakijya kwivuza hanze kubera inzobere zigenda ziza mu Rwanda. Ibi ni ibyo gushimira Imana n'abayobozi beza b'igihugu.

Igihe kitaragera

Nk'uko twagiye tubigarukaho, umwana atangwa n'Imana yonyine. Hari ubwo mwivuza muganga akababwira ngo muri bazima mwembi, nimugende mutegereze muzabyara. Hari ubuhamya bw'imiryango yagiye ibona abana mu myaka irenze icumi bakabyara, impundu zikavuga mu miryango.

Muri iki gihe cyo gutegereza ni byiza ko mukomeza kuba umwe, mugakundana, buri wese akarinda mugenzi we cyane cyane ibitero biva hanze y'urugo rwanyu mugakomeza gutegereza igihe gikwiriye mukazabona umwana mutariyanduje. Iyo musenga, imbaraga z'Imana zibibafashamo rwose.

Abadayimoni

Muri Afurika cyane cyane munsi y'ubutayu bwa Sahara, hari abarozi kandi na Bibiliya yemera ko abarozi babaho. N'ubwo bigoye kubona gihamya ariko abarozi babaho kuko isi y'umwijima irakora ku manywa na nijoro. Satani azanwa no kwiba, kwica no kurimbura (Yohana 10:10), ariko isezerano ry'Imana riravuga ngo: “Nuko rero mugandukire Imana ariko murwanye Satani, na we azabahunga”. (Yakobo 4:7)

Kuri iki kibazo, abakeka ko barozwe ni byiza ko basenga kuko Imana idusezeranya ko nitugira kwizera hari ibimenyetso bizagendana natwe. Muri byo harimo ibi:
…bazirukana abadayimoni mu izina ryanjye, bazavuga indimi nshya, bazafata inzoka, kandi nibanywa ikintu cyica nta cyo kizabatwara na hato, bazarambika ibiganza ku barwayi bakire.” (Mariko 16: 17-18)

Mu nkuru yacu y'ubutaha, tuzabagezaho ubuhamya bwa bamwe mu banyuze muri iki kibazo n'uko babyitwayemo. Ubaye nawe hari ubwo ufite wabudusangiza.
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Ni gute umukristo yanesha icyaha?

By Ubwanditsi

Mu ntambara turwana yo kwegera Kristo, icyaha kitubera inzitizi yo kwegera Yesu, kandi tugerageza gukora ibyiza tukisanga mubibi ariko hamwe no gufashwa n'Imana no gukurikiza amahame yayo , tugenda dutsinda icyaha tukagerageza gusa na Kristo.

Intambwe ya mbere Bibiliya itwereka mu kunesha icyaha ni Umwuka Wera. Imana yaduhaye Umwuka Wera kugirango tubashe kubona ubutsinzi mu buzima bwa gikristo. Imana yerekanye neza imbuto z'Umwuka izo ari zo (Abagalatiya 5:1 6-25) Abayizera bose bagomba kugira Umwuka Wera, ariko muri urugendo tugomba kugendera mu mwuka, twiyoroshya kugirango tuyoborwe nawo.

Ikinyuranyo kiri hagati y'ubuzima budafite Umwuka Wera n'ubuwuyoborwa nawo kigaragarira mu buzima bwa Petero, mbere y'uko yuzura Umwuka Wera, yihakanye Yesu incuro eshatu kandi yari yaravuze ko azamukurikira no mu rupfu bakajyana. Ariko ku munsi wa pentecote amaze guhabwa Umwuka Wera, yahawe imbaraga maze ahamya Yesu yeruye.

Tugendera mu Mwuka ariko ntidukwiye kuwuzimya (1Abatesalonike 5:19) ese ni gute umuntu yuzura Umwuka Wera? Niba icyaha kirwanya Umwuka Wera umuntu ntabashe kuwuzura, kubaha Imana nibwo buryo bwiza butuma umuntu yuzura Umwuka Wera. Kumvira amategeko y'Imana biha umwuka wera ubwisanzure bwo gukorera mu bitekerezo byacu no mu byo dukora byose.

Bibiriya ivuga ko Imana yaduhaye ijambo ryayo kugira ngo rituyobore gukora ibyiza (2timoteyo 3:16-17). Ritwigisha uko tugomba kubaho n'icyo tugomba kwizera, riduhishurira ko mu gihe duhisemo inzira mbi, ijambo ry'Imana ritugarura mu nzira nziza. Iyo ijambo ry'Imana ribaye muri twe rigwiriye, ryinjira mu mitima yacu rikarandura icyaha n' imizi yacyo (Abaheburayo 4:12)

Yosuwa yabwiwe urufunguzo rwo gutsinda abanzi be ari ukubaha ijambo ry'Imana no kuritekereza amanywa n'ijoro. Ibi yarabikoze kandi byamubereye urufunguzo rwo gutsinda urugamba bagera mu gihugu cy'isezerano.

Mu rugendo rwa gikristo, tugerageza kubaha ijambo ry'Imana, dufata Bibiliya tukajya murusengero cyangwa tukiha intego yo kurisoma buri munsi, ariko tukananirwa kurishyira mu mitima, cyangwa kurikurikiza mu buzima bwacu, mbese icyaha kiratunesha. Tugerageza uko dushoboye kugira ngo tuyoborwe n'umwuka tugaburirwa ijambo ry'Imana ariko ntirikora igogora nk'uko bikwiye kuko icyaha kiraturwanya ariko ntidukwiye gucogora.

Iki kintu ni ingenzi cyane, niba utagiraga akamenyero ko kwiga ijambo ry'Imana no kurifata mu mutwe, ni byiza ko utangira kubikora kuko birafasha mu rugendo. Bigire akamenyero ko uzajya usoma hanyuma ukandika amagambo agufashije, ukanasaba Imana ngo iyashingishe imizi mu mutima wawe kugirango kamere y'icyaha nizamuka, uyitsindishe ijambo ry'Imana

Byongeye kandi mu rugamba rwo kurwanya icyaha isengesho ni intwaro ikomeye cyane mu buzima bwacu. Hari ijambo Kristo yabwiye Petero bari mu gashyamba Getsemane, mu gihe Yesu yari arimo gusenga, Petero yarasinziriye. Yesu aramubyutsa aramubwira ati“kanguka usengekugira ngo utagwa mu moshya”.

Umutima urakunze ariko umubiri uranze (Matayo 26:41).twebwe tumeze nka Petero, dushaka gukora ibyiza ariko ntitubona imbaraga. Dukeneye gukurikiza amabwiriza Imana iduha yo kuyishaka, tugakomeza gukomanga, no kuyisaba izaduha imbaraga dukeneye. (Matayo 7:7) isengesho si ikintu gisaba imbaraga zidasanzwe, isengesho ni ugushimira Imana imbaraga zayo zitarondoreka. Tukayisaba imbaraga zo gukora icyo ishaka ko dukora, Atari icyo twebwe dushaka gukora (1Yohana 5:14-15)

Indi ntwaro yo gutsinda icyaha, ni ugushyira hamwe kw'abizera bo mu itorero. Mu gihe Yesu yoherezaga abigishwa be yagendaga atuma babiri babiri (Mariko 6:7) .Bibiriya idutegeka kwihuriza hamwe mu gushishikariza abandi gukora ibikorawa byiza. (Abaheburayo 10: 24) Ikindi kandi idushishikariza kwaturirana ibyaha byacu (Yakobo 5:16)

Rimwe na rimwe ububasha bwo gutsinda icyaha buza vuba. Ikindi gihe bukaza gahoro gahoro. Ariko Imana yadusezeranyije ko uko tugenda tuyegera, izagenda ihindura ubuzima bwacu. Tugomba gukomeza guhyiramo imbaraga zacu mu kunesha icyaha kuko Imana ni inyakuri isohoza ijambo yavuze.

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Ibiribwa udakwiye kubanza mu gifu.

By Ubwanditsi

Dukenera kurya kugirango tugire ubuzima bwiza. Ariko kumenya icyo tugomba kurya n´igihe gikwiriye ni ngenzi cyane, kuko ibyo turya bifitanye isano n´imiterere y´ubuzima dufite.

Ifunguro rishobora kukubera ryiza nijoro, rishobora kwangiza ubuzima bwawe mu gihe urifashe mu gitondo n'ibindi nk´ibyo. Abantu bamwe bazi neza ko gufata ifunguro rya mu gitondo (breakfast) ari ingenzi, mu buzima, ariko hari n´abandi batazi bimwe mu biribwa bishobora kwangiza ubuzima iyo babifashe nta kindi kintu babanje kurya.

Dore amoko y´ibiribwa udakwiye kurya nta kintu kiri mu gifu:

1. icyayi (tea) cyangwa ikawa (coffee).
Abantu bamwe bafite akamenyero ko gutangiza umunsi wabo igikombe cy´ icyayi cyangwa ikawa. Ariko aka kamenyero ni kabi, ukwiye gutangira umunsi wawe unywa igikombe cy´amazi. Kunywa ikawa mu gifu harimo ubusa byongera hydraulic acid iyi aside iyo ibaye nyinshi mu mubiri ibangamira urwungano ngogozi

2. Inyanya
Inyanya ni nziza mu buzima kuko zifasha mu ikorwa ry´abasirikare mu maraso. Ariko kuzirya nta kindi kintu urarya bishobora kugira ingaruka mbi ku buzima bwawe. Inyanya zifite acide nyinshi iyo uzibanje mu gifu zongera acide ikaba yaba nyinshi mu gifu. Byaba byiza rero inyanya uzivanze n´ibindi biribwa cyangwa ukazirya nyuma yo gufata ifunguro ryawe.

3. Ibinyobwa birimo carbone (Carbonated Drinks)

Urugero: coca cola, soda, ibinyobwa byongera imbaraga (energy drink)
Ibi binyobwa muri rusange ni bibibi ku buzima. Kubifata mu gitondo nta kindi kintu urashyira mu gifu,byangiza amara.

4. Ibihaza

Ibihaza ni byiza cyane kubirya bituma ubuzima bugubwa neza.ariko kubibanza mu gifu nta kindi wabanje kurya ntabwo ari byiza kuko bitera uburwayi bw´igifu.

5 umugati

Benshi muri twe umugati tuwufata nk´ifunguro rya mu gitondo. Ariko ni akamenyero kabi. Hamwe n´ibindi biribwa bifitanye isano n´imigati si byiza kubibanza mu gifu kuko biba bigizwe n´icyo twita yeast yangiza urwungano ngogozi rukananirwa gukora neza akazi rushinzwe.

6. icunga (orange)

Benshi bakunze gufatata urubuto rw´icunga cyangwa umutobe warwo mu gitondo ariko ntibikwiriye ko arirwo umuntu yabanza kurya kuko rwangiza mu muhogo kandi tuzi ko umuhogo ari imwe mu nzira y´ibiryo.

Kugira ngo turusheho kugira ubuzima bwiza, birakwiye ko tumenya amoko atandukanye y´ibiribwa n´igihe gikwiye cyo kuyafata kugirango tutavaho twangiza ubuzima bwacu kandi amagara yacu nibwo bukungu ndetse araseseka ntayorwa.

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Ubutwari bw´umugore, umusemburo w´impinduka nziza.

By Ubwanditsi

Umugore yitwa intwari mu gihe ahuye n´ibihe bimukomereye akarangwa no kwigirira icyizere we ubwe ndetse akakigiririra n´Imana. Akomeza abandi mu kugaragaza ubutwari no kugaragaza itandukaniro. Ubutwari bw´umugore si ubwa none gusa na kera bwahozeho.

Mu gihe bamwe batekereza ko umugabo ariwe uza ku mwanya wa mbere mu kugaragaza ubutwari, ntabwo ari we wenyine kuko hari abagore b´ingenzi Bibiriya itwereka bahinduye ubuzima bwa benshi.

Yayeli
Yayeli ni umugore wa Yabini, uyu mugore yabaye intangarugero mu butwari kandi yahinduye ubuzima bw´Abisilaheli, kuko niwe wabashije kwica Sisera wari warazengereje Abisilaheri , mu gihe yahungiraga iwe, Yayeli yamwakiranye urugwiro, amaze gusinzira Yayeli afata urumambo ararumwicisha Abisiraheri banesha batyo (Abacamanza:4)

Mariya Magadalena
Mariya Magadalena yabaye umwe mu bahamije umuzuko wa Yesu Kristo. Núbwo hari mugihe gikomereye abakurikiye Yesu, we n´abagore bagenzi be nibo bageze kumva ya Yesu mbere marayika ababonekera ababwira ko Yesu yazutse. Muri make bari baraye ijoro bagenda bajyanye ibihumura kumva ya Yesu.

Esiteri
Esiteri ni urugero rwiza mu kwitangira abandi, ni umugore wabaye intwari kuko yemeye gushyira ubuzima bwe mu kaga kugirango arokore ubwoko bw´Abayuda. Yafashe ubuzima bwa bene wabo abushyira ku mutwe we yiyemeza kujya guhura n´umwami nta burenganzira yahawe ngo akunde avuganire Abayuda be kwicwa (Esiteri 7:3)

Debora
Debora yari umuhanuzi akaba n´umucamanza w´Abisiraheri, niwe mugore wenyine Bibiriya igaragaza ko yabaye umucamanza mu bwoko bwa Isiraheri, Debora yari umunyabwenge cyane, yagiraga umuhate mu guca imanza zitabera. Uyu mugore yubahaga Imana kandi yayoborwaga n´Umwuka wera kandi mu gihe cye yabereye urumuri umuryango mugari (Abacamanza 4:4)

Mariya nyina wa Yesu
Mariya nyina wa Yesu ni intangarugero, mu byanditswe byera, ni uwo kwizerwa kuko yubashye umuhamagaro wÍmana. Yemera kubyara Yesu, yanyuze mu buzima bumukomereye ariko ntiyigeze acumura ku Mana (luka 1)

Rusi umumowabukazi
Rusi yari umupfakazi, umugabo we yapfuye nta mwana amusigiye, mu by´ukuri yari afite umubabaro ukomeye ariko yagaragaje ukwizera gukomeye kuvanze no kwihangana ubwo yangaga gusiga nyirabukwe Naomi ngo ajye gushaka undi mugabo kuko yizeraga ko Imana izabagirira neza we na nyirabukwe, ubutwari bwa Rusi bwo kwizera no kubaha bikwiye kutwigisha kugira umuhate wo gukurikira Kristo.

Umugore n´umuntu w´agaciro kandi urangwa n´ubutwari, ndetse n Imana iramwemera cyane kugeza n´aho yemeye ko umwana wayo Yesu abyarwa n´umugore, umugore ni umuntu w´agaciro kenshi mu muryango, ndetse n´igihugu muri rusange kuko yifitemo ubwenge n´ ubushobozi bwo gukemura ibibazo byugarije abantu.

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Wari uzi ko gukoresha telephone umwanya muremure atari byiza ku buzima?

By Ubwanditsi

Muri iki gihe isi yihuta mu ikoranabuhanga, telephone Ni igikoresho nkenerwamu buzima bwa buri munsi kuko iduhuza n'abantu, gukoresha imbuga nkoranyambaga, kumva indirimbo, kumva cyanwa gusoma amakuru, gukoresha telephone igihe kirekire cyane bigira ingaruka mbi ku buzima bw'umuntu.

Mu by'ukuri nta gihe cyagenwe cyo gukoresha telephone, umuntu ku giti cye niwe wiha gahunda mu kuyikoresha bitewe n'imirimo ashaka gukora. Tugiye kurebera hamwe ingaruka zishobora guterwa na telephone mu gihe umuntu ayikoreshe umwanya muremure.

Cancer y'ubwonko

Iyo umuntu amaze kirekire akoresha telephone, binananiza imitsi ishinzwe kujyana amakuru ku bwonko, kugeza ku kigero ubwonko butakaje ubudahangarwa niho uzabona umuntu yafashwe n'iyi cancer.

Telephone yangiza amaso

Amakuru dukesha Healthcentral.com. ubushakashatsi bwagaragaje ko mu minota itanu umuntu agikanguka, abantu 90% bakanguka bahita bareba kuri telephone zabo ako kanya, nyamara bene uru rumuri umuntu arebyemo agikanguka rwangiza amaso bigatuma atabasha kureba mu ntera ndende.

Indwara yo kwikanga buri kanya,

Buriwese utunze telephone iki kibazo ahura nacyo. Rimwe na rimwe dutekereza ko phone zacu ziri gusona n'iyo byaba atari byo. Kuko tuba twizeye ko ari ubutumwa (message), cyangwa umuntu w'ingenzi uduhamagaye. Ibi bigatuma duhora dushikagurika.

Ikibazo cy'ubugumba.

ku bagabo bakunda gushyira phone mu mifuka y'imyenda bambaye,ibi ni bibi cyane kuko hari amareyo aturuka muri telephone akinjira mu mubiri akajya kwangiza intanga ngabo umuntu akaba yakurizamo ubugumba.
Gutakaza ubushobozi bwo kumva

Kuvugira kuri telephone umwanya muremure, kwegereza telephone ugutwi cyane cyane igihe iri kwinkiza umuriro,kumva umuziki washyizemo volume ibi byose ni bibi byangiza ingoma y'ugutwi (tympan )

Kwangiza uruhu

Ikintu cya mbere kinezeza abantu iyo bagiye kugura telephone ni ishusho yayo (uko igaragara inyuma), kuba isa neza, nyamara hari iziba zikoze mu cyuma cyitwa metal, zigaragara neza inyuma nyamara zibitsemo icyo twita nickel, chromium na cobalt byangiza uruhu, ku bantu bagira uruhu rwirabura kuko ruba rufite icyitwa melanine (itanga ibara ryumukara ku ruhu) bene uruhu rurarwanya kurusha abafite uruhu rwera kuko rutagira melanine.

Impanuka mu muhanda

Muri iyi minsi tugenda tubona abantu Babura ubuzima bitewe n'uko bahugiye gukoresha telephone, bamwe bagenda bifotora, abandi bagenada bavugira kuri telephone, abandi bagenda bandika, hariho n'abatwara imodoka barimo gukoresha telephone ugasanga ibibyose bishyize ubuzima bw'abantu mu kaga.

Kudakora akazi uko bikwiriye

Iyo turi mu kazi, applications ziri muri telephone zacu nka, Whatsapp, Facebook,I nstagram n'ibindi. Biraduhuza ugasanga umuntu ntashobora kumara iminota 10 atarebye kuri telephone, ibi bituma umuntu akora akazi igihe gito ugreranyije n'icyo amara kuri telephone.

Telephone yangiza uburyo bwo gutekereza bwa kamere (naturel)

Kuva telephone zatangira gukoreshwa, zafashe umwanya munini mu buzima bwacu bituma tutagitekereza cyane kuko ibyo dushaka kumenya tujya kuri google ikabitubwira tutiriwe dukoresha ubwonko bwacu. Ibi byose byangiza imitekerereze ya kamere.

N'ubwo tubonye ibibi byo gukoresha telephone umwanya muremure, ntibishatse kuvuga ko telephone ari mbi kuko ifite ibyiza byinshi kuko iduhuza na bagenzi bacu, ikatumenyesha amakuru atandukanye. Aha icyo tugomba kwitondera ni ukumenya uburyo bunoze bwo kuyikoresha kugirango itatugusha mukaga tumaze kubona.

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Uburemere bw'ibikomere by'imiryango yatinze kubona urubyaro

By Ubwanditsi

Iyo umuhungu n'umukobwa babanye ikintu baba bafitiye amatsiko kuruta ibindi ni ukubyara. Bamwe babana baramaze kuganira ku mubare w'abana bifuza ndetse abihuta cyane baba baramaze no kubita amazina. Imyumvire baba bafite ni uko umuhungu n'umukobwa iyo baryamanye bahita basama.

Ubushakashatsi bw'inzobere mu by'imyororokere buvuga ko ku ngo 10 zishingwa, abashakanye bakiri bato, biteguye kubyara, abagira amahirwe yo guhita basama burya ngo ntibarenga 3%. Abandi bifata igihe kirekire bigasaba gutegereza, maze bamwe nyuma bigakunda abandi bikanga.

Ku bemera Imana, ibi birushaho gushimangira ko umwana ari impano y'Imana koko. Nta mafaranga watanga ngo ubone umwana, nta cyubahiro wagira ngo bitume ubyara, umuryango uvukamo nta cyo wagufasha Imana itaguhaye uwo Mugisha.
Dore abana ni umwandu uturuka ku Uwiteka, Imbuto z'inda ni zo ngororano atanga. (Zaburi 127:3)

Iyo abageni bari gusezerana imbere y'Imana baravuga ngo: “…tuzakomeza kubana mu rukundo, tubyaye cyangwa tutabyaye!” Ibi ntibipfa kumvikana uriya munsi w'ubukwe ariko iyo mutegereje umwana umwaka umwe, imyaka ikicuma ikaba icumi, mutangira kubitekerezaho, icyo gihe ni bwo mumenya ko mwarahiriye ibintu bikomeye. Iki gihita cyerekana ko umwana atari ikintu wakwiha.

Ibikomere bitangira ryari?

Gukomereka ubundi ni igihe uhuye n'ikintu gikomeye amarangamutima yawe akananirwa kucyakira. Icyo gihe byitwa ko wakomeretse. Mu by'ukuri kutabona urubyaro si bose bapfa kubyakira ngo bavuge ko nta cyo bitwaye, keretse intwari mu kwihangana.

Kwitana ba mwana (gukomeretsanya hagati yanyu)

Muri iki kibazo umugabo n'umugore batangira gukekana, umwe atekereza ko mugenzi we ari we nyirabayazana. Mu mico myinshi y'Abanyafurika bwo bikunda kwitirirwa umugore ko ari we utabyara. Gusa kuko ubu ubuvuzi bwateye imbere, abaganga babasha kukubwira uko ikibazo kimeze. Gusa n'ubwo bimeze bitya, umubare w'abagabo bemera kwisuzumisha uracyari hasi.

Gucana inyuma

Bamwe mu bubatse iyo batinze kubona urubyaro bishora mu ngeso z'ubusambanyi kugira ngo bagerageze n'ahandi. Ibi uretse gusiga igisebo n'umutima ugucira urubanza, nta wundi musaruro bikunze gutanga.

Kujya mu bapfumu

Abagore bamwe na bamwe badasenga bajya mu bapfumu, abasenga bakishora mu bahanuzi. Buri wese aba yifuza kumenya impamvu yatumye batinda kubyara ndetse n'intsinzi ya byo. Abenshi bababwira ko barozwe, kugira ngo babacucure utwabo, bababeshya ngo barabavura. Ibi kandi biteranya imiryango ku buryo haba inzangano zitari ngombwa.

Kwiheba

Muri iki kibazo cyo gutinda kubyara habamo ubwihebe bukabije, kwiyanga kugeza ubwo umuntu yumva Imana yaramutaye, agatakaza ibyiringiro. Abagore bacika intege vuba ariko na none iyo bafashijwe, bakira vuba kuko byibuze kuvuga bo biraborohera bakarira bakaruhuka imitima.

Ku bagabo ho si ko bimeze ahubwo yumva mu isi nta wundi mugabo ufite ibibazo nk'ibye cyane cyane iyo yamenye ko ari we ufite ikibazo cyo kutabyara. Abagabo badasenga biyahuza inzoga, abandi bakiyanga ku kigero ahunga abantu akaba mu bwigunge. N'iyo haba umuti wamuvura akanga kuwufata kubera ubwihebe.
“Umutima unezerewe ukesha mu maso, ariko umutima ubabaye utera ubwihebe” (Imigani 15:13).

Kunanirwa gukora,

Hari bamwe bageza ubwo bananirwa gukora kuko aba avuga ngo ese ubundi ndaruhira nde? Ahubwo ugasanga aracungana n'ubuzima bw'umunsi umwe. Abandi bahorana umushiha, uburakari budafite impamvu n'ibindi.

Urukundo rurayoyoka

Burya urukundo rumeze nk'indabyo. Bisaba guhora wuhira. Rero iyo umuryango urimo ibibazo, urukundo rurahazaharira kugeza ubwo bamwe bananirwa gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina kuko bumva ibyo bakoze ari nta musaruro bitanga.

Indwara zidasobanutse

Murabizi ko umubabaro utavuwe uhinduka indwara, abantu benshi bagendana agahinda gakabije (depression), abandi kuko baba batabasha kurya, umubiri ugacika intege. Bamwe barwara umutwe udakira n'igifu, abandi ntibasinzira. Bamwe barware indwara zijyanye n'umubyibuho, abandi imitsi yo mu mutwe iraturika kubera umubabaro w'indengakamere, abandi bariyahura.
“Umutima unezerewe ni umuti mwiza, ariko umutima ubabaye umutera konda” (Imigani 17:22)

Ibikomere by'iwabo w'umugabo n'umugore

Iyo abubatse bagerageje kubana neza muri iki kibazo hari ubwo iwabo w'umwe muri bo bataborohera. Kera iyo mwatindaga kubyara, umugore yarabiziraga bakavuga ko yaje guca umuryango. Muri iki gihe iyo myumvire ntirahinduka bishimishije, gusa ntibibuza kugira ipfunwe mu miryango yanyu.

Ibikomere biva muri sosiyete

Mu bihugu byinshi by'Afurika ntibabasha kwakira umuryango utarabona abana. Uzumva bamwe bavuga ngo uriya mugabo afite akazi keza, ni umukire, yarize cyane ariko ntabyara. Hari bamwe no muri karitsiye ujya kuyoboza ahantu ukumva barakubwiye ngo “hahandi batabyara!” Ibi kandi ntibibura kugera ku bo bivugwaho, ugasanga birushijeho gushengura imitima yabo.

Birababaza iyo uhuye n'umuntu akakuramutsa agahita akubaza ngo mumaze kugira abana bangahe? Iki kibazo gihita kikwibutsa ko utarabyara! Abenshi ntibabyihanganira ahubwo birabakomeretsa.

Aha ntitwabura kuvuga ko hari iminsi mikuru imwe n'imwe nko guhemba ababyaye n'indi iyi miryango batinya kujyamo kuko bavuga ngo nitujya guhemba ababyaye bakabona nteruye umwana w'abandi, nyuma akagira icyo aba, baravuga ngo ni njye umwishe!

Ariko ubundi, ni iki gitera abantu kutabyara?

Hari impamvu nyinshi zishobora gutuma umuntu atabyara:
Imiremerwe:

Uko umuntu aremye hari igihe avukana ingingo zimwe zifite ikibazo bikaba byamubuza amahirwe amwe n'amwe harimo no kubyara. Ibi rimwe na rimwe no kwa muganga nta cyo babikoraho gusa ni byiza kwivuza kugira ngo umenye uko uhagaze.

Uburwayi

Hari ubwo muba muri bazima ariko umwe cyangwa mwembi mukagira uburwayi butuma mutabasha gusama. Icyo gihe iyo mwivuje neza, cyane cyane muri iki gihe ubuvuzi bugenda butera imbere, barabafasha mukabyara. Mu Rwanda bisigaye byoroshye kubera politike nziza y'ubuvuzi kuri bose. Abenshi nta n'ubwo bakijya kwivuza hanze kubera inzobere zigenda ziza mu Rwanda. Ibi ni ibyo gushimira Imana n'abayobozi beza b'igihugu.

Igihe kitaragera

Nk'uko twagiye tubigarukaho, umwana atangwa n'Imana yonyine. Hari ubwo mwivuza muganga akababwira ngo muri bazima mwembi, nimugende mutegereze muzabyara. Hari ubuhamya bw'imiryango yagiye ibona abana mu myaka irenze icumi bakabyara, impundu zikavuga mu miryango.

Muri iki gihe cyo gutegereza ni byiza ko mukomeza kuba umwe, mugakundana, buri wese akarinda mugenzi we cyane cyane ibitero biva hanze y'urugo rwanyu mugakomeza gutegereza igihe gikwiriye mukazabona umwana mutariyanduje. Iyo musenga, imbaraga z'Imana zibibafashamo rwose.

Abadayimoni

Muri Afurika cyane cyane munsi y'ubutayu bwa Sahara, hari abarozi kandi na Bibiliya yemera ko abarozi babaho. N'ubwo bigoye kubona gihamya ariko abarozi babaho kuko isi y'umwijima irakora ku manywa na nijoro. Satani azanwa no kwiba, kwica no kurimbura (Yohana 10:10), ariko isezerano ry'Imana riravuga ngo: “Nuko rero mugandukire Imana ariko murwanye Satani, na we azabahunga”. (Yakobo 4:7)

Kuri iki kibazo, abakeka ko barozwe ni byiza ko basenga kuko Imana idusezeranya ko nitugira kwizera hari ibimenyetso bizagendana natwe. Muri byo harimo ibi:
…bazirukana abadayimoni mu izina ryanjye, bazavuga indimi nshya, bazafata inzoka, kandi nibanywa ikintu cyica nta cyo kizabatwara na hato, bazarambika ibiganza ku barwayi bakire.” (Mariko 16: 17-18)

Mu nkuru yacu y'ubutaha, tuzabagezaho ubuhamya bwa bamwe mu banyuze muri iki kibazo n'uko babyitwayemo. Ubaye nawe hari ubwo ufite wabudusangiza.
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Ni gute umukristo yanesha icyaha?

By Ubwanditsi

Mu ntambara turwana yo kwegera Kristo, icyaha kitubera inzitizi yo kwegera Yesu, kandi tugerageza gukora ibyiza tukisanga mubibi ariko hamwe no gufashwa n'Imana no gukurikiza amahame yayo , tugenda dutsinda icyaha tukagerageza gusa na Kristo.

Intambwe ya mbere Bibiliya itwereka mu kunesha icyaha ni Umwuka Wera. Imana yaduhaye Umwuka Wera kugirango tubashe kubona ubutsinzi mu buzima bwa gikristo. Imana yerekanye neza imbuto z'Umwuka izo ari zo (Abagalatiya 5:1 6-25) Abayizera bose bagomba kugira Umwuka Wera, ariko muri urugendo tugomba kugendera mu mwuka, twiyoroshya kugirango tuyoborwe nawo.

Ikinyuranyo kiri hagati y'ubuzima budafite Umwuka Wera n'ubuwuyoborwa nawo kigaragarira mu buzima bwa Petero, mbere y'uko yuzura Umwuka Wera, yihakanye Yesu incuro eshatu kandi yari yaravuze ko azamukurikira no mu rupfu bakajyana. Ariko ku munsi wa pentecote amaze guhabwa Umwuka Wera, yahawe imbaraga maze ahamya Yesu yeruye.

Tugendera mu Mwuka ariko ntidukwiye kuwuzimya (1Abatesalonike 5:19) ese ni gute umuntu yuzura Umwuka Wera? Niba icyaha kirwanya Umwuka Wera umuntu ntabashe kuwuzura, kubaha Imana nibwo buryo bwiza butuma umuntu yuzura Umwuka Wera. Kumvira amategeko y'Imana biha umwuka wera ubwisanzure bwo gukorera mu bitekerezo byacu no mu byo dukora byose.

Bibiriya ivuga ko Imana yaduhaye ijambo ryayo kugira ngo rituyobore gukora ibyiza (2timoteyo 3:16-17). Ritwigisha uko tugomba kubaho n'icyo tugomba kwizera, riduhishurira ko mu gihe duhisemo inzira mbi, ijambo ry'Imana ritugarura mu nzira nziza. Iyo ijambo ry'Imana ribaye muri twe rigwiriye, ryinjira mu mitima yacu rikarandura icyaha n' imizi yacyo (Abaheburayo 4:12)

Yosuwa yabwiwe urufunguzo rwo gutsinda abanzi be ari ukubaha ijambo ry'Imana no kuritekereza amanywa n'ijoro. Ibi yarabikoze kandi byamubereye urufunguzo rwo gutsinda urugamba bagera mu gihugu cy'isezerano.

Mu rugendo rwa gikristo, tugerageza kubaha ijambo ry'Imana, dufata Bibiliya tukajya murusengero cyangwa tukiha intego yo kurisoma buri munsi, ariko tukananirwa kurishyira mu mitima, cyangwa kurikurikiza mu buzima bwacu, mbese icyaha kiratunesha. Tugerageza uko dushoboye kugira ngo tuyoborwe n'umwuka tugaburirwa ijambo ry'Imana ariko ntirikora igogora nk'uko bikwiye kuko icyaha kiraturwanya ariko ntidukwiye gucogora.

Iki kintu ni ingenzi cyane, niba utagiraga akamenyero ko kwiga ijambo ry'Imana no kurifata mu mutwe, ni byiza ko utangira kubikora kuko birafasha mu rugendo. Bigire akamenyero ko uzajya usoma hanyuma ukandika amagambo agufashije, ukanasaba Imana ngo iyashingishe imizi mu mutima wawe kugirango kamere y'icyaha nizamuka, uyitsindishe ijambo ry'Imana

Byongeye kandi mu rugamba rwo kurwanya icyaha isengesho ni intwaro ikomeye cyane mu buzima bwacu. Hari ijambo Kristo yabwiye Petero bari mu gashyamba Getsemane, mu gihe Yesu yari arimo gusenga, Petero yarasinziriye. Yesu aramubyutsa aramubwira ati“kanguka usengekugira ngo utagwa mu moshya”.

Umutima urakunze ariko umubiri uranze (Matayo 26:41).twebwe tumeze nka Petero, dushaka gukora ibyiza ariko ntitubona imbaraga. Dukeneye gukurikiza amabwiriza Imana iduha yo kuyishaka, tugakomeza gukomanga, no kuyisaba izaduha imbaraga dukeneye. (Matayo 7:7) isengesho si ikintu gisaba imbaraga zidasanzwe, isengesho ni ugushimira Imana imbaraga zayo zitarondoreka. Tukayisaba imbaraga zo gukora icyo ishaka ko dukora, Atari icyo twebwe dushaka gukora (1Yohana 5:14-15)

Indi ntwaro yo gutsinda icyaha, ni ugushyira hamwe kw'abizera bo mu itorero. Mu gihe Yesu yoherezaga abigishwa be yagendaga atuma babiri babiri (Mariko 6:7) .Bibiriya idutegeka kwihuriza hamwe mu gushishikariza abandi gukora ibikorawa byiza. (Abaheburayo 10: 24) Ikindi kandi idushishikariza kwaturirana ibyaha byacu (Yakobo 5:16)

Rimwe na rimwe ububasha bwo gutsinda icyaha buza vuba. Ikindi gihe bukaza gahoro gahoro. Ariko Imana yadusezeranyije ko uko tugenda tuyegera, izagenda ihindura ubuzima bwacu. Tugomba gukomeza guhyiramo imbaraga zacu mu kunesha icyaha kuko Imana ni inyakuri isohoza ijambo yavuze.

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Ibiribwa udakwiye kubanza mu gifu.

By Ubwanditsi

Dukenera kurya kugirango tugire ubuzima bwiza. Ariko kumenya icyo tugomba kurya n´igihe gikwiriye ni ngenzi cyane, kuko ibyo turya bifitanye isano n´imiterere y´ubuzima dufite.

Ifunguro rishobora kukubera ryiza nijoro, rishobora kwangiza ubuzima bwawe mu gihe urifashe mu gitondo n'ibindi nk´ibyo. Abantu bamwe bazi neza ko gufata ifunguro rya mu gitondo (breakfast) ari ingenzi, mu buzima, ariko hari n´abandi batazi bimwe mu biribwa bishobora kwangiza ubuzima iyo babifashe nta kindi kintu babanje kurya.

Dore amoko y´ibiribwa udakwiye kurya nta kintu kiri mu gifu:

1. icyayi (tea) cyangwa ikawa (coffee).
Abantu bamwe bafite akamenyero ko gutangiza umunsi wabo igikombe cy´ icyayi cyangwa ikawa. Ariko aka kamenyero ni kabi, ukwiye gutangira umunsi wawe unywa igikombe cy´amazi. Kunywa ikawa mu gifu harimo ubusa byongera hydraulic acid iyi aside iyo ibaye nyinshi mu mubiri ibangamira urwungano ngogozi

2. Inyanya
Inyanya ni nziza mu buzima kuko zifasha mu ikorwa ry´abasirikare mu maraso. Ariko kuzirya nta kindi kintu urarya bishobora kugira ingaruka mbi ku buzima bwawe. Inyanya zifite acide nyinshi iyo uzibanje mu gifu zongera acide ikaba yaba nyinshi mu gifu. Byaba byiza rero inyanya uzivanze n´ibindi biribwa cyangwa ukazirya nyuma yo gufata ifunguro ryawe.

3. Ibinyobwa birimo carbone (Carbonated Drinks)

Urugero: coca cola, soda, ibinyobwa byongera imbaraga (energy drink)
Ibi binyobwa muri rusange ni bibibi ku buzima. Kubifata mu gitondo nta kindi kintu urashyira mu gifu,byangiza amara.

4. Ibihaza

Ibihaza ni byiza cyane kubirya bituma ubuzima bugubwa neza.ariko kubibanza mu gifu nta kindi wabanje kurya ntabwo ari byiza kuko bitera uburwayi bw´igifu.

5 umugati

Benshi muri twe umugati tuwufata nk´ifunguro rya mu gitondo. Ariko ni akamenyero kabi. Hamwe n´ibindi biribwa bifitanye isano n´imigati si byiza kubibanza mu gifu kuko biba bigizwe n´icyo twita yeast yangiza urwungano ngogozi rukananirwa gukora neza akazi rushinzwe.

6. icunga (orange)

Benshi bakunze gufatata urubuto rw´icunga cyangwa umutobe warwo mu gitondo ariko ntibikwiriye ko arirwo umuntu yabanza kurya kuko rwangiza mu muhogo kandi tuzi ko umuhogo ari imwe mu nzira y´ibiryo.

Kugira ngo turusheho kugira ubuzima bwiza, birakwiye ko tumenya amoko atandukanye y´ibiribwa n´igihe gikwiye cyo kuyafata kugirango tutavaho twangiza ubuzima bwacu kandi amagara yacu nibwo bukungu ndetse araseseka ntayorwa.

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Ubutwari bw´umugore, umusemburo w´impinduka nziza.

By Ubwanditsi

Umugore yitwa intwari mu gihe ahuye n´ibihe bimukomereye akarangwa no kwigirira icyizere we ubwe ndetse akakigiririra n´Imana. Akomeza abandi mu kugaragaza ubutwari no kugaragaza itandukaniro. Ubutwari bw´umugore si ubwa none gusa na kera bwahozeho.

Mu gihe bamwe batekereza ko umugabo ariwe uza ku mwanya wa mbere mu kugaragaza ubutwari, ntabwo ari we wenyine kuko hari abagore b´ingenzi Bibiriya itwereka bahinduye ubuzima bwa benshi.

Yayeli
Yayeli ni umugore wa Yabini, uyu mugore yabaye intangarugero mu butwari kandi yahinduye ubuzima bw´Abisilaheli, kuko niwe wabashije kwica Sisera wari warazengereje Abisilaheri , mu gihe yahungiraga iwe, Yayeli yamwakiranye urugwiro, amaze gusinzira Yayeli afata urumambo ararumwicisha Abisiraheri banesha batyo (Abacamanza:4)

Mariya Magadalena
Mariya Magadalena yabaye umwe mu bahamije umuzuko wa Yesu Kristo. Núbwo hari mugihe gikomereye abakurikiye Yesu, we n´abagore bagenzi be nibo bageze kumva ya Yesu mbere marayika ababonekera ababwira ko Yesu yazutse. Muri make bari baraye ijoro bagenda bajyanye ibihumura kumva ya Yesu.

Esiteri
Esiteri ni urugero rwiza mu kwitangira abandi, ni umugore wabaye intwari kuko yemeye gushyira ubuzima bwe mu kaga kugirango arokore ubwoko bw´Abayuda. Yafashe ubuzima bwa bene wabo abushyira ku mutwe we yiyemeza kujya guhura n´umwami nta burenganzira yahawe ngo akunde avuganire Abayuda be kwicwa (Esiteri 7:3)

Debora
Debora yari umuhanuzi akaba n´umucamanza w´Abisiraheri, niwe mugore wenyine Bibiriya igaragaza ko yabaye umucamanza mu bwoko bwa Isiraheri, Debora yari umunyabwenge cyane, yagiraga umuhate mu guca imanza zitabera. Uyu mugore yubahaga Imana kandi yayoborwaga n´Umwuka wera kandi mu gihe cye yabereye urumuri umuryango mugari (Abacamanza 4:4)

Mariya nyina wa Yesu
Mariya nyina wa Yesu ni intangarugero, mu byanditswe byera, ni uwo kwizerwa kuko yubashye umuhamagaro wÍmana. Yemera kubyara Yesu, yanyuze mu buzima bumukomereye ariko ntiyigeze acumura ku Mana (luka 1)

Rusi umumowabukazi
Rusi yari umupfakazi, umugabo we yapfuye nta mwana amusigiye, mu by´ukuri yari afite umubabaro ukomeye ariko yagaragaje ukwizera gukomeye kuvanze no kwihangana ubwo yangaga gusiga nyirabukwe Naomi ngo ajye gushaka undi mugabo kuko yizeraga ko Imana izabagirira neza we na nyirabukwe, ubutwari bwa Rusi bwo kwizera no kubaha bikwiye kutwigisha kugira umuhate wo gukurikira Kristo.

Umugore n´umuntu w´agaciro kandi urangwa n´ubutwari, ndetse n Imana iramwemera cyane kugeza n´aho yemeye ko umwana wayo Yesu abyarwa n´umugore, umugore ni umuntu w´agaciro kenshi mu muryango, ndetse n´igihugu muri rusange kuko yifitemo ubwenge n´ ubushobozi bwo gukemura ibibazo byugarije abantu.

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Wari uzi ko gukoresha telephone umwanya muremure atari byiza ku buzima?

By Ubwanditsi

Muri iki gihe isi yihuta mu ikoranabuhanga, telephone Ni igikoresho nkenerwamu buzima bwa buri munsi kuko iduhuza n'abantu, gukoresha imbuga nkoranyambaga, kumva indirimbo, kumva cyanwa gusoma amakuru, gukoresha telephone igihe kirekire cyane bigira ingaruka mbi ku buzima bw'umuntu.

Mu by'ukuri nta gihe cyagenwe cyo gukoresha telephone, umuntu ku giti cye niwe wiha gahunda mu kuyikoresha bitewe n'imirimo ashaka gukora. Tugiye kurebera hamwe ingaruka zishobora guterwa na telephone mu gihe umuntu ayikoreshe umwanya muremure.

Cancer y'ubwonko

Iyo umuntu amaze kirekire akoresha telephone, binananiza imitsi ishinzwe kujyana amakuru ku bwonko, kugeza ku kigero ubwonko butakaje ubudahangarwa niho uzabona umuntu yafashwe n'iyi cancer.

Telephone yangiza amaso

Amakuru dukesha Healthcentral.com. ubushakashatsi bwagaragaje ko mu minota itanu umuntu agikanguka, abantu 90% bakanguka bahita bareba kuri telephone zabo ako kanya, nyamara bene uru rumuri umuntu arebyemo agikanguka rwangiza amaso bigatuma atabasha kureba mu ntera ndende.

Indwara yo kwikanga buri kanya,

Buriwese utunze telephone iki kibazo ahura nacyo. Rimwe na rimwe dutekereza ko phone zacu ziri gusona n'iyo byaba atari byo. Kuko tuba twizeye ko ari ubutumwa (message), cyangwa umuntu w'ingenzi uduhamagaye. Ibi bigatuma duhora dushikagurika.

Ikibazo cy'ubugumba.

ku bagabo bakunda gushyira phone mu mifuka y'imyenda bambaye,ibi ni bibi cyane kuko hari amareyo aturuka muri telephone akinjira mu mubiri akajya kwangiza intanga ngabo umuntu akaba yakurizamo ubugumba.
Gutakaza ubushobozi bwo kumva

Kuvugira kuri telephone umwanya muremure, kwegereza telephone ugutwi cyane cyane igihe iri kwinkiza umuriro,kumva umuziki washyizemo volume ibi byose ni bibi byangiza ingoma y'ugutwi (tympan )

Kwangiza uruhu

Ikintu cya mbere kinezeza abantu iyo bagiye kugura telephone ni ishusho yayo (uko igaragara inyuma), kuba isa neza, nyamara hari iziba zikoze mu cyuma cyitwa metal, zigaragara neza inyuma nyamara zibitsemo icyo twita nickel, chromium na cobalt byangiza uruhu, ku bantu bagira uruhu rwirabura kuko ruba rufite icyitwa melanine (itanga ibara ryumukara ku ruhu) bene uruhu rurarwanya kurusha abafite uruhu rwera kuko rutagira melanine.

Impanuka mu muhanda

Muri iyi minsi tugenda tubona abantu Babura ubuzima bitewe n'uko bahugiye gukoresha telephone, bamwe bagenda bifotora, abandi bagenada bavugira kuri telephone, abandi bagenda bandika, hariho n'abatwara imodoka barimo gukoresha telephone ugasanga ibibyose bishyize ubuzima bw'abantu mu kaga.

Kudakora akazi uko bikwiriye

Iyo turi mu kazi, applications ziri muri telephone zacu nka, Whatsapp, Facebook,I nstagram n'ibindi. Biraduhuza ugasanga umuntu ntashobora kumara iminota 10 atarebye kuri telephone, ibi bituma umuntu akora akazi igihe gito ugreranyije n'icyo amara kuri telephone.

Telephone yangiza uburyo bwo gutekereza bwa kamere (naturel)

Kuva telephone zatangira gukoreshwa, zafashe umwanya munini mu buzima bwacu bituma tutagitekereza cyane kuko ibyo dushaka kumenya tujya kuri google ikabitubwira tutiriwe dukoresha ubwonko bwacu. Ibi byose byangiza imitekerereze ya kamere.

N'ubwo tubonye ibibi byo gukoresha telephone umwanya muremure, ntibishatse kuvuga ko telephone ari mbi kuko ifite ibyiza byinshi kuko iduhuza na bagenzi bacu, ikatumenyesha amakuru atandukanye. Aha icyo tugomba kwitondera ni ukumenya uburyo bunoze bwo kuyikoresha kugirango itatugusha mukaga tumaze kubona.

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Dusigasire Umuco wo gusuhuzanya.

By Ubwanditsi

Gusuhuzanya ni umuco uba mu bantu bose batuye isi, by'umwihariko mu Rwanda, gusuhuzanya ni indagagaciro ikomeye dukomora ku banyarwanda bo hambere. Iyo abantu bahuraga bararamukanyaga bahanye ikiganza cyangwa bagahoberana.
Mu gusuhuzanya hari amagambo yabugenewe akoreshwa mu muco nyarwanda: mwaramutse, mwiriwe, muraho. Hari n'izindi nteruro zigizwe n'amagambo abantu bakoresha baramukanya : amashyo ugasubiza ngo amashyo ngore, gira so ugasubiza ngo ndamushimiye, gira abana ugasubiza ngo ndabashimiye. mu buryo bw'ikinyabupfura, umukuru niwe ufata iyambere akaramutsa umuto.

Ku bakristo nabo bafite indamukanyo bahuriraho, iyo umuntu ahuye na mugenzi aramubwira ati: Yesu ashimwe nawe agasubiza ati: Yesu ahimbazwe. Yezu akuzwe, agasubiza ati: iteka ryose.

Mu by'ukuri gusuhuza abandi bigira akamaro, kudasuhuza abandi cyangwa kutabikiriza bishobora kugaragaza ko utabakunda cyangwa ko nta kinyabupfura ugira.

Icyakora hari abantu badakunda gusuhuza abandi. Bamwe babiterwa n'isoni cyangwa kumva bisuzuguye. Abandi bo batinya gusuhuza abo badahuje ubwoko, umuco cyangwa urwego rw'imibereho. Ariko gusuhuza umuntu, n'iyo byaba ari indamukanyo yoroheje, bigira akamaro cyane.

Ese ni akahe kamaro ko gusuhuzanya?

Gusuhuzanya ntibifasha umuntu kugirana umubano mwiza na bagenzi be, ndetse bikamufasha kunoza ibyo akora mu buzima bwa buri munsi.
Ese jambo ry'Imana ritwigisha iki ku birebana no gusuhuzanya?
Gusuhuza abantu b'ingeri zose nta kurobanura ku butoni ni ingenzi.
Igihe Petero yakiraga Umunyamahanga wa mbere mu itorero rya gikristo, ari we Koruneliyo,yaravuze ati: ‘ni ukuri menye ko Imana itarobanura ku butoni' ( Ibyakozwe n'intumwa 10:34).

Ariko nanone, Petero yabwiye Abakristo ati: “Mwubahe abantu b'ingeri zose, mukunde umuryango wose mukunde bene data” (1 petero 2: 17). Ubwo rero, birakwiriye ko twajya dusuhuza abandi, tutitaye ku bwoko bwabo, ibara ry'uruhu cyangwa aho bakomoka. Ibyo bigaragaza ko tubakunda kandi ko tububaha.
Pawulo yagiriye inama abagize itorero rya gikristo ati: “Mwemerane nk'uko Kristo na we yabemeye kugira ngo Imana ihimbzwe.” (Abaroma 15:7) Pawulo yagarukaga cyane ku bakristo bari ‘baramubereye ubufasha bumukomeza.

Igihe Mariya yendaga kubyara Yesu,Imana yamutumyeho marayika. Uwo marayika yasuhuje Mariya aramubwira ati: “Ni amahoro uhiriwe? Umwami Imana iri kumwe nawe”

Nubwo uwo marayika yabonaga ko gutanga ubutumwa bwa iImana ari inshingano yihariye, ntiyigeze abona ko kuvugana n'umuntu udatunganye bisuzuguritse. Ni yo mpamvu yabanje kumusuhuza. Ibyo bitwigisha iki? Tujye dusuhuza abandi kandi tubereke urukundo.

Pawulo yari azi Abakristo benshi bo mu matorero yo muri Aziya no mu Burayi. Mu nzandiko ze hari benshi yagiye asuhuza abavuze mu mazina. (Abaroma: 16). Pawulo yatahije Abakristo benshi. Yavuzemo :Foyibe, anatera inkunga bene se kugira ngo bamwakire mu Mwami nk'uko bikwiriye abera, no kugira ngo bamufashe mu byo yari kubakeneraho byose.' Nanone yashuhuje Purisikila na Akwila, agira ati: “Si jye jyenyine ubashima, ahubwo n'amatorero yose yo mu banyamahanga arabashima.
Tubonye rero ko umuco wo gusuhuzanya ari ingenzi kuko bigaragaza ko umuntu yahawe uburere bwiza, kandi n'Imana irabishima. Mbere y'uko twihatira kumenya iby'ahandi,Birakwiriye ko tubanza gusigasira umuco wacu utazavaho ucika.

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Ese kuba umukire ni icyaha?

By Ubwanditsi

Kugira ubutunzi si icyaha, ariko inshuro nyinshi ubutunzi buhamagara amoshya . Gutunga no gutunganirwa si bibi ahubwo ikibazo gishobora kuvuka mu buryo iyo mitungo ikoreshwa.

Bibiriya ivuga ku mu kene kandi ikagaragaza ko bitakagombye kudutera urujijo. Mu gihe Imana yoherezaga umwana wayo mu isi, ntiyamushyize mu nzu nziza. Yesu yavukiye mu muryango woroheje kandi ibye byarabayobeye bagwa mu rujijo (Mariko 6:3)

Bibiliya kandi itanga ingero z'abantu bari abakire bahawe umugisha n'Imana harimo Abrahamu, Yakobo na Salomo, aba bose bakoresheje neza ubutunzi bwabo neza bubaha Imana.

Abifuza kuba abatunzi bagwa mu moshya no mu mutego, no mu irari ryinshi ry'ubupfu ryangiza rikaroha abantu mu bibahenebereza bikabarimbuza (1Timoteyo 6:9) ku murongo wa cumi hakomeza kuvuga ko gukunda impiya ari umuzi w'ibibi byose. Uyu murongo wa 10 bamwe bawuvuga nabi bagahamya ngo: “impiya ni umuzi w'ibibi byose nyamara Bibiliya iravuga ngo: “gukunda impiya ni umuzi w'ibibi byose” bivuze ko iyo twibanze ku butunzi bw'isi gusa, buduhindukira ikigirwamana bigatuma bitadushobokera kunezeza Imana. (Abaroma 8:8)

Imana itanga ubutunzi ku bantu bayo mu isi uko ishaka. Abakristo b'abatunzi badafata ubutunzi bwabo nk'ikigirwmana abo bagirira neza benshi. Bakora ibikorwa by ‘urukundo, batanga umusanzu wabo mu gufasha imfubyi n'abapfakazi (Yakobo 1:27) ikindi bafasha amatorero yabo bakoresheje ubutunzi. (Malaki:3:10)

Zakayo yari umutunzi, ariko inyungu ze yazibonaga mu buryo budakwiye yambuye abantu. Ariko igihe yahuraga na Yesu, yamuhinduriye ubuzima. Uko guhinduka kwe kwamuhinduriye imibereho ye yose. Harimo n'uburyo bwo gukoresha amafaranga, Zakayo yabwiye Yesu ati: kimwe cya kabiri cy'umutungo wanjye ndagiha abakene kandi abo nambuye ndabakubira kabiri. (Luka 19: 8) Mu Gushaka agakiza ka Yesu, Zakayo yahinduye intego y'ubuzima bwe. Kuri we ntibyari icyaha kuba umukire, ahubwo byari kuba icyaha kuri we iyo akomeza kwambura abantu cyangwa gukoresha ubutunzi mu ntego yo kwikunda. Imana yaduhaye ubutunzi ngo tubukoreshe neza dufasha abandi.

Imana ishaka ko twishimira ubutunzi yaduhaye, ariko ntituburutishe Uwiteka ngo usange twabihinduye ibigirwamana. Kuko ibyo dufite byose hano mu isi tubigereranya n'intizanyo bityo tujye dusaba Imana idushoboze gukoresha ubutunzi bwacu uko ishaka.(Zaburi 50:9-12)

Source: How to Manage Your Money: An In-Depth Bible Study On Personal Finances by Larry Burkett

Umubabaro ujya uhinduka ibyishimo.

By Ubwanditsi

Umuntu yakwibaza impamvu Imana yemera ko umubabaro ubaho mu isi n'impamvu abantu b'inyanagamugayo bahura n'amakuba, imibabaro, akarengane n'ibyago, ni kibazo gikomereye buri wese. Abantu benshi utitaye ku muco wabo n'aho bavuka bavuga ko umuntu ataremewe kubabara, gupfa ndetse no kurenganywa. Ibi byose nibyo tugiye guhuza tukamenya ukuri.

Mu isi huzuyemo akarengane aho usanga abanyembaraga barenganya abanyantege nke. Abantu batizera Imana mu by'ukuri ntibajya bamenya impamvu akarengane kabaho.Kureka kwizera Imana sibyo byakemura ikibazo cy'akarenagane.
Ku bizera Imana tuzi ko kugirango umuntu agere ku byiza muri ubu buzima bwo mu isi, abanza guca mu buzima buruhije (umubabaro). Kuri twe kunyura mu mibabaro n'agahinda, tuzi neza ko bitaduca intege kuko muri byose tugomba guhora dushima Imana.

Niba twemera ko Imana ishobora byose kandi ko inzira zayo ziruta kure cyane izacu, bivuze ko Imana ariyo ifata umwanzuro w'ib'igumba kutubaho birenze ubwenge bwacu, Kandi ikabikora mu gihe ishatse.

Turebe inkuru ya Yobu

Uyu mugabo Imana yemeye ko ibyago bimugeraho kandi yari umuntu uboneye, inyangamugayo kandi yubahaga Imana. Yobu yahombye umutungo we wose, abana be bose ndetse umubiri we uramuhinduka arwara ibibembe biramubabaza cyane. Abantu baramwanga yemwe n'incuti ze zaramuhindutse. Umugore we yamuciye intege amubwirw ko kwizera Imana nta mumaro. Ese dushobora kwibaza kuri uwo mubabaro ungana utyo wabaye ku muntu w'umukiranutsi mu gihe cye?

Mbere y'uko agaeragezwa, byari byoroshye ku bandi bantu kumenya ko Yobu yahiriwe kandi ko ubuntu bw'Imana buri kuri we. Ariko mu gihe ibigarara byatandukanye n'ukuri, byari bikomereye abantu kumva ibiri kuba ndetse n'ukuntu yobu yabyitwaragamo. Bamwe batekerezaga ko Yobu Imana itakimukunda kandi ko yayicumuyeho bikaba byari ibihano biri kumugeraho. Na Yobu ubwe ntiyiyumvishaga ibiri kumubaho, yatekerezaga ko Itari mu ruhande rwe. Iyo ibibazo bigeze ku bantu akenshi duhita twanzura ko bakoze ibibi. Ariko siko biba bimeze
Yobu Imana yaramwishimiraga ari nayo mpamvu yemereye satani ngo amugerageze (Yobu 1:8-12).

N'ubwo Yobu yababaye kuri icyo kigero, yabyitwayemo neza . ntiyigeze atuka Imana nk'uko Satani yari abyiteguye, yakomeye k'ukuri no gukiranuka. N'ubwo Yobu bitari bimworoheye, ariko ibyo yanyuzemo byatumye Imana ihabwa icyubahiro kuko atayihakanye.

Bityo rero ntitukite kubitubaho. Ahubwo twite ku kwizera Imana niyo gisubizo cy'ibibazo byacu. Yobu yabaye intangarugero kuko yabashije kwihangana hanyuma Imana ikamugororera. (Yakobo 5:11)

Kuramya Imana by'ukuri ntibizanwa n'uko twahiriwe mu buzima. Dukeneye kuramya Imana kuko ari Imana, atari ukuyiramya kuko hari ibyo tuyitegerejeho.
Niba dukunda Imana kandi tukishimira muri yo mu gihe yaduhaye imigisha mu mirimo ymaboko yacu gusa, uyu mubano twaba dufitanye n'Imana wamara igihe gito, byasa nk'aho gukiranuka kwacu kwaba gushingiye ku mibereho myiza dufite.
Ku bw'ibyo rero tujye tuzirikana ko umunsi umwe ibyaha byose n'imibabaro bizarangira. Ubwo Imana izahindura byose bishya, tuzaba mu munezero udashira.

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Christian union yateguye igiterane cy'imbaturamugabo gisoza igihembwe cy'amasomo.

By Ubwanditsi

Chrtistian union ni ihuriro ry'abanyeshuri biga muri kaminuza ya Mount Kenya, iri huriro rigizwe n'abanyeshuri baturutse mu matorero atandukanye yemera Yesu Kristo. Ryatangiye mu mwaka wa 2016, rikaba riyobowe na KAREKEZI David.

Mu bikorwa bitandukanye bakora harimo: gusurana hagati y'abanyamuryango n'indi miryango ya gikristo, gufashanya (abafite ubushobozi bucye), gukora ibitaramo, by'umwihariko buri mpera z'igihembwe bakora igitaramo si ibi gusa batanga inyigisho z'ijambo ry' Imana rikomeza umukristo murugendo.

Christian union ifite intego yo kwigisha ijambo ry'Imana muri kaminuza no hanze yayo bagamije kuzana abantu kuri Yesu. No kongera ububyutse.

Kuri uyu wa gatatu tariki 7 Kamena 2019, Ihuriro ry'abakristo (Christian union) babarizwa muri kaminuza ya Mount Kenya, babateguriye igiterane gisoza igihembwe cy'amasomo (semester). Kizabera muri sallle ya Mount Kenya guhera saa saba n'igice (13:30 PM) kugeza saa kumi n'ebyiri z'umugoroba (18:00 PM)

Iki giterane gifite intego igira iti: “Guhindurirwa gusa na Yesu Kristo” (Abaroma 8:29-30). Byongeye muri iki giterane hatumiwemo abavugabutumwa, chorale, abahanzi ndetse n'abaramyi barimo:
Umuvugabutumwa Pastor Julienne KABANDA uzwi cyane mu bikorwa byo gufasha urubyiruko.
Umuhanzi akaba n'umuramyi James afatanyije na Daniella baririmba indirimbo zo kuramya no guhimbaza Imana harimo mpa amavuta mu itabaza,n'izindi.
Umuramyi PAPY Clever. Wamenyekanye mu ndirimbo zitandukanye higanjemo izo mu gitabo (cantique):uwo njya nikomezahozo,amakuru y'umurwa,…
Jesus Light Choir (New Jerusalem Church)

Muri iki giterane hitezwe impinduka zikomeye, binyuze mu ijambo ry'Imana, indirimbo n'ubuhamya butandukanye bizahindura abantu benshi bamenye Yesu Kristo bamwakire nk' umwami n'umukiza w'ubugingo bwabo (bakizwe) ikindi bazunguka abanyamuryango bashya bazinjira muri Christian union hanyuma bagafatanya kwamamaza ubutumwa bwiza bwa Yesu. Ku basanzwe barakiriye Yesu, iki giterane kizabaha imbaraga barusheho kwizera, naho kubari baracitse intege, kije aricyo kubahembura.
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Ni iki cyihishe inyuma y'isenyuka ry'ingo rya hato na hato?

By Pastor Desire Habyarimana

Isenyuka ry'ingo ni kimwe mu bibazo byugarije umuryango. Iyo uganiriye n'abantu batandukanye, bakubwira ko umuryango ufite ibibazo bikomeye ndetse bamwe bagera aho babifata nk'icyorezo, bitewe n'ubwinshi bw'ibibazo biriho. Bamwe mu rubyiruko ubu batinya kubaka ingo kubera ubwoba bwo kuba nyuma y'iminsi mike bahita batandukana.

Iyo uganiriye na bo, bakubwira ko nta cyizere bafite ko ingo za bo zizamara kabiri. Igitangaje ni uko mu bari kunyura muri ibyo bibazo, biragoye kubona ukubwiza ukuri kw'ibyo ari kunyuramo, ahubwo akubwira ko bikomeye gusa.

Iyo ugerageje kuganira na bamwe barakubwira bati: “Kirazira mu muco kuvuga ibintu mu mazina ya byo.” Ibi ngo ni uko byaba ari ukwishyira hanze, ariko akenshi bakabishingira ko bigoye kubona uwo kwizerwa wabwira ibibazo byawe. Iyo umukobwa agiye kubaka, ba nyirasenge baramubwira bati: “Uramenya uzitonde kandi nibikomera uzamenye burya ni ko zubakwa.” Uwo rero aragenda maze yagerayo agahura n'ibikomeye ariko umutima muhanano ntumwemerere kuvuga ibyo anyuramo. Umuhungu nawe bakamubwira ko umugabo ari uwifata mu bibazo ntagaragaze integer nke, noneho byakomera akabura amahitamo bikazagera ubwo ananirwa kubyihanganira, nyamara iyo biganirwaho byari gukemuka.

Iyo tuvuze ikibyihishe inyuma ni ikintu kitagaragara ariko kikaba nyirabayazana igeza umuryango aho usenyuka. Muri iyi nkuru yacu, turavuga ku bibazo bamwe badatinyuka kuvugira mu ruhame ariko bishobora kuba intandaro ya gatanya:

1.Imibonano mpuzabitsina ikozwe nabi:

Kimwe mu bituma umuntu ashaka kubaka urugo harimo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ihoraho. Akenshi rero hari ubwo umwe mu bubatse aba yarasambanye mbere y'uko akora ubukwe, maze agahora agereranya uwo babana n'abo baryamanye mbere. Hari abandi basanga abo babana bafite intege nke mu mubiri (uburemba), cyangwa akagira uburwayi butuma adakora imibonano. Iyi ngingo irakomeye kuko izana ibibazo byinshi birimo amakimbirane ahoraho, agasuzuguro, gucana inyuma, kwikunda n'ibindi. Ibi iyo bigitangira birihanganirwa ariko akenshi birangira bamwe bagiye mu busambanyi cyangwa bagatandukana. Igitangaje rero, biragoye kubona ukubwiza ukuri ko yasanze ari uku bimeze ahubwo iyo basaba gatanya bahimba ibindi byakumvikana mu bantu kuko batinya kwikoza isoni, nyamara iyo bagirwa inama mbere ahari byari kugira igaruriro.

2.Gucana inyama:

Iyo umuhungu n'umukobwa barambagizanya, buri wese agerageza guhisha ingeso ze kugira ngo mugenzi we atazishingiraho akaba yamwanga. Agerageza kugaragaza ibyakurura mugenzi we kugira ngo yemere ko bazabana. Rimwe na rimwe iyo ubwiye umwe muri abo ko mugenzi we yitwara nabi, anywa inzoga nyinshi, agira inshuti mbi cyangwa arasambana byitwa ko ari ugushaka kumwicira ubukwe. Burya ingeso ntitinda kwigaragaza, wayihisha umwaka umwe ariko bigera aho bikanga. Yaba umugabo cyangwa umugore, nta n'umwe ukunda ko uwo babana amusangira n'abandi kuko iyo mubana uba waramuhaye umutima wose, waramushyizemo icyizere gikabije. Iyo rero ibi byanze, ugasanga abantu bahisemo gutandukana, umwe muri bo cyangwa bose ntatinyuka kuvuga ko impamvu ahubwo abenshi babirenzaho bagahimba izindi mpamvu kugira ngo hatazagira abamuseka.

3.Kubura urukundo

Iyo umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa afata icyemezo cyo gusiga iwabo, ahagurutswa n'ijambo ryitwa “urukundo”. Akenshi mu kurambagizanya, baba bararumweretse ku kigero gihagije. Igitangaje ni uko atekereza ko ari ko bizahora ariko intege nke abagabo benshi bahuriyeho ni uko iyo agejeje umugore mu nzu atongera kumuhamagara buri kanya, kumwandikira ubutumwa bugufi kuri terefone ku buryo buhoraho, kumubwira utugambo twiza twuzuye urukundo n'ibindi.

Abagore ibi bibananira kwihanganira kuko na bo mu ntege nke zabo bakunda kwitabwaho ku kigero cyo hejuru. Iyo icyo yaje ashaka akibuze bamwe bafata imyanzuro yo gutandukana. Kimwe n'abagabo bose, nta udakunda gukundwa ariko hari ubwo abakobwa bamwe bajya kubaka mu by'ukuri yishakira aho kuba, ariko atazi gutanga urukundo atabasha no kurwakira ahubwo urugo rukaba aderese gusa.
Burya usibye abantu n'inyamaswa n'ibimera bimwe na bimwe iyo byeretswe urukundo bitanga umusaruro. Akenshi iyo urukundo rubuze mu muryango, urasenyuka. Rero biratangaje kubana n'umuntu ugasanga arikunda bikabije wibaza icyo wagiye kumara. Iyo bamwe babonye urubaha, birangira atwaye imitima yabo.

4.Kudaha agaciro uwo mwashakanye:

Guhabwa agaciro ni ikintu buri wese akeneye kandi ibyo ntibikorwa mu magambo gusa ahubwo iyo bivanze n'imirimo ukorera mugenzi wawe birushaho kumwereka agaciro. Uzi ko hari abirirwa batavuganye, maze bataha ntibanasuhuzanye? Ibintu byereka mugenzi wawe ko umutekerezaho kandi ukamuha agaciro ntibiba binini. Igihe utashye ukamuzanira akantu n'ubwo kaba gato, hari icyo bigaragaza. Iyo umugabo yiriwe mu rugo ukamwitaho, na we akakwitaho, ntibigira uko bisa. Gushimira mugenzi wawe ibyiza yagukoreye, kumuhuguzanya ubugwaneza, kumenya itariki y'amavuko ya mugenzi wawe ukagira impano umuha, mu gihe ahugiye mu mirimo ukamwibuka ukamubwira ijambo rimuruhura n'ibindi. Ibi iyo bibuze bishobora kuzana ibibazo bikomeye mu rushako rwanyu.

5.Gukubitwa/ Ihohoterwa ryo mu ngo:

Uwavuga ko nta hohotera riri mu miryango yaba yigiza nkana kuko amakuru avuga abagabo bishe abagore babo, abakubiswe n'ibindi ntasiba kumvikana. Kera abagore barakubitwaga akagenda abeshya abantu ko inka yamwishe ku jisho, cyangwa yaguye ku kintu kikamukomeretsa kandi mu by'ukuri ari ukugira ngo ahishire ibyamubayeho. Biratangaje ko muri iki gihe hakiri abagore bakubitwa, hirengagijwe amategeko n'ingaruka bishobora kugira ku wakoze iryo hohotera. Kubera umuco, hari ababikorerwa bagaceceka, bumva ejo bizarangira kugera ubwo biganishije urugo ku byago bitandukanye, harimo no gusenyuka k'urugo. Aha ntitwavuga ko abagore ari bo babohoterwa bonyine, ahubwo hari n'abagabo bahohoterwa, n'ubwo umubare wabo utaba munini. Ibi iyo bikomeje kugirwa ibanga biba biganisha kugutandukana

6.Gusuzugurwa:

Muri kamere y'abagabo harimo gukunda icyubahiro, ku buryo iyo asuzuguwe bituma yiheba, amarangamutima ye ntabyakire, akaba yahitamo no gutandukana n'uwo bashakanye kuko yumva ko yatakaje agaciro. Uyu rero iyo muganiriye, yihagararaho, ntakubwira ko icyatumye asenya ari uko yasuzuguwe ahubwo akenshi ashaka impamvu yindi yumva yarushaho kumvikana.

Burya abagabo benshi batinda mu kabari, cyangwa mu kazi, si uko bakunda akazi cyane ahubwo aba atekereza aho agiye gutaha akumva nta mpamvu yo gutaha maze agataha agiye kubyuka cyangwa guhinduka imyenda.

N'abagore ni uko, hari abasuzugurwa kandi ibi bikaba byaratangiye cyera. Ntawutazi ko cyera iyo umuryango wabyaraga abakobwa benshi, wabonaga bafite ikibazo, bakamera nk'abagushije ishyano. Ibi byatumaga abakobwa badahabwa uburezi ku kigero kimwe na basaza babo. No mu bizera muzi ko bavuga ngo Yesu yahagije abagabo ibihumbi bitanu, ukuyemo abagore n'abana. Ibyo biguha ishusho y'uko umugore yafatwaga. Kugera ubu hari amadini n'amatorero atarabasha guha inshingano zo hejuru igitsinagore kuko bumva ko badashoboye.
Ibi rero iyo umugore abikorewe mu muryango bimusiga habi akihangana bigitangira ariko bikazasoza atandukanye.

7.Kutaganira ku bibareba (manque de communication)

Buriya rero kutaganira bisenya ingo nyinshi, bitewe n'uko uwo mwashakanye adashobora kumenya ibikunezeza cyangwa ibikubangamira keretse ubimubwiye. Kandi uko ugenda ubangamirwa kenshi ntuvuge, umutima uragenda ukazinukwa pe. Ukajya wumva nta cyiza kindi utegereje kandi wenda iyo ubivuga mwari gushakira umuti hamwe.

Iyo mutaganira ibibazo byatangiye ari bito bihinduka imisozi maze ingo zigasenyuka.
N'ubwo kuganira ari byiza ariko hari ibintu bijyana no kuganira: Kumenya kuganira, ukamenya icyo uganira, igihe cyo kuganira, uburyo bwo kuganira, ahantu ho kuganirira. Hari igihe ushobora gukeka ko wavuze wenda ibikubangamiye, ariko bitewe n'uko wabivuze n'ahantu n'igihe wabivugiye ugasanga wangije byinshi. «Umugore w'umutima wese yubaka urugo, ariko umupfu we ubwe ararusenya» (migani 14:1).

Mubyo ukuri urugo rwubakwa n'ubwenge ni byiza gusaba Imana ubwenge bwatuma twubaka urugo ntirusenyuke.

8.Kutababarirana no kutibagirwa amakosa uwo mwashakanye yakoze

Abantu benshi birabagora kubabarira uwabakoreye ikosa ariko bikarushaho iyo ahemukiwe n'uwo babana. Gusa buriya nta muntu utagira amakosa, ni yo mpamvu na Bibiliya ivuga ngo tujye tubabarirana uko umuntu agize icyo apfa n'undi, kandi ngo mugenzi wawe nagucumuraho uzamubabarire inshuro mirongo irindwi karindwi.
Ikizakwemeza ko utamubabariye ni uko uhora umucyurira ibyo yakosheje, noneho yagira irindi kosa akora ukabanza kumucyurira ibyo yagukoreye bibi ariko ntekereza ko iyo ukunda uwo mwashakanye, kumubabarira biroroha cyangwa birabanguka.
Ibi iyo bitinze, urukundo rurayoyoka bikavamo impamvu yo gutandukana kandi utabasha gusobanura neza icyatumye ufata umwanzuro umeze utyo.

9.Kwanga kwikosora

Ikintu cyo kutikosora cyangwa guhora mu makosa amwe ni ikintu kiremereye. Hari igihe umwe yumva asa n'uwasonewe gukora amakosa, akumva ntawukwiriye gutinda ku myitwarire ye n'ubwo yaba ibangamiye abandi ahubwo we agahora atunga intoki abo babana, avuga ibibi byabo.

Niba ushaka kumenya icyo kwikosora, uzahere kuri cya kindi uwo mwashakanye ahora atonganira, cyangwa avugira nabi cyangwa se kimwe ahora akubwira ko kimubangamira. Ujye wibuka ko Bibiliya itubwira ngo ntitukagire igisitaza dushyira imbere y'umuntu uwo ari we wese.

10.Umutungo ukoreshejwe nabi

Nta wabura kuvuga ko umutungo ukoreshejwe nabi n'umwe mu bashakanye bishobora kuba imbarutso yo gusenyuka k'umuryango. Hari ubwo umwe amenya amakuru ko hari imitungo icishwa ku ruhande cyangwa hari konti atariho, cyangwa akabona ibiza mu rugo atazi neza amakuru ya byo. Nk'urugero umugabo agatahana imodoka umugore ataragishijwe inama mu kuyigura n'ibindi. Ibi bigera igihe uwabikorewe akibaza ngo “Ese njye ubu ndi iki muri uru rugo?”

Hakorwa iki ngo ingo zitagira ibibazo?

Muri iyi nkuru twifuza kuvuga ku bibazo bisenya ingo kandi ba nyira byo batabasha kubivuga, nyamara iyo biganirwaho mbere byari kubonerwa umuti bitaragera aho bisenya urugo. Reka umuco wo kuganira ku bibazo ube uwacu, bizatuma dukemura ibibazo amazi atararenga inkombe. Abenshi basezerana bafite imiryango. Mushobora kubegera bakabafasha cyangwa ababaherekeje mu bukwe bwanyu (parrain na marraine). Abandi bafite insengero basengeramo, mushobora kwitabaza abayobozi banyu mu by'umwuka, yewe n'abayobozi ba leta aho dutuye tubagishije inama badufasha. Burya amategeko ntaberaho gutandukanya abagiranye ibibazo ahubwo icya mbere ni ukubunga.

Twumve ko gutandukana ari ugutsindwa. Mu by'ukuri iyo wananiwe kubaka urugo, bizagora abandi bantu kukugirira icyizere ahubwo bazajya bavuga ngo afite akazi keza, ayoboye abantu benshi ariko yananiwe n'urugo.

Reka uruhare rwawe mu biri kukubaho ugerageze kutaba nyirabayazana mu bibazo byageza umuryango wawe ku gusenyuka ahubwo ugerageze gukora ibishoboka byose ngo urugo rwawe rukomeze rubeho.
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